Start ignoring people who threaten your joy.
Literally, ignore them.
Don’t invite any parts of them into your space.
*batman voice* does anyone have a cough drop
There are over 526 million black women in the world, all with different appearances, and your racist ass is going to say not liking black women is a ‘preference’, when the only damn thing they all got in common physically is their blackness? Sure, honey.